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                                       Hello Friends, after my first post it seemed to be less impacting in one way or the other. Because earlier post was just a read and leave post. Now let me take you to the deep and insight of exptend of casteism and discrimination. In this post i will take you the journey to some extreme cases of what we call as "casteism" . Now in this post and upcoming posts i will be presenting you the , what we call a developing face in front of by taking some of the latest news and stories of inter caste marriages and casteism. So now let me take you the recently happened story of our heritage city Alwar, Rajasthan. This case if of November, 2014. So gyus its not 1980's nor 1990's damn its 2014 the present scenario with low class mentality of citizens of India. So the case goes like........


 GIRL KILLED ALLEGEDLY BY PARENTS WEEK AFTER INTER-CASTE MARRIAGE

 

In a suspected case of honour killing, a 21-year-old girl was allegedly murdered in the capital by her parents who opposed her marriage to a youth belonging to a different caste. The deceased, identified as Bhawna Yadav, a final year student of Sanskrit Honours at Venkateswara College, was allegedly strangled to death by her parents Jagmohan Yadav, a property dealer and his wife Savitri, on Saturday night at their house in Bharat Vihar, Kakrola in South West Delhi, police said.
“They took her body to Alwar, Rajasthan, where they burnt it at their ancestral village. We have arrested the parents and further investigations are underway,” said Deputy Commissioner of Police (South-West) Suman Goyal. Bhawna and Abhishek Seth (24), who is a government official, had met each other at Venkateswara College in August 2012 through a common friend.
They fell in love and wanted to marry each other but knew that their parents won’t approve of their relationship, police said. The young couple, however, got married on November 12 at the Arya Samaj Mandir at Mandir Marg in New Delhi. Abhishek then took Bhawna to his home in Uttam Nagar in West Delhi where his parents accepted their marriage, they said.
According to Abhishek, Bhawna’s parents reached his home that very night and said that they would get them married in a grand function and took their daughter with them. “However, once they returned home, they told Bhawna that they don’t accept this marriage and they would get her married as per their wish. Bhawna then returned to my place on November 14. Her parents again visited our house with some neighbours and assured that they would do a ‘chunni ceremony’ (engagement ceremony) at their home and send my wife back on Sunday,” said Abhishek.
However, on Saturday night, Abhishek got a call from Bhawna’s maternal uncle Lakhan who allegedly threatened to kill both of them. “Minutes later, I got a call from Bhawna that her uncle was drunk and he should ignore him. The next morning, repeated calls on Bhawna and her parent’s number went unanswered. Sometime later, I got a call from her cousin Sachin who informed me that Bhawna was cremated in Alwar, following which I approached police,” said Abhishek in his police complaint.
One of Bhawna’s neighbour Mahinder told police that her parents told him that she was bitten by a snake and he drove them to their ancestral place in Alwar in his car for some ‘tantrik rituals’ to get her cured. “Mahinder told us that Bhawna appeared to be dead when she was kept in his car,” the police official added. Following the disclosure, police nabbed the parents from their house.

“As the body has been disposed off, the exact methodology of how she was killed is being ascertained and further investigations are underway. It has emerged that she was strangled to death. Her parents during interrogation told us that they were getting a bad name in their community for their daughter’s step and that is why they eliminated her,” the official added. An FIR was lodged at Dwarka North Police Station in connection with the incident.

                                               I know after going through the above case everyone of you might be thinking how impertinent are their parents. Actually this is a thinking of own minute or so because after a span of time we only follow what our ancestors followed. And then we are on the same lane. Dude where is the change, which you were talking about after reading such cases in newspapers. Actually in short it cant initialize because there is no initiation. But as i said if my posts helped to change the mentality if at least  0.0001 %  of 1.252 billion population of India then it would be a great victory of not only mine but of many other citizens of this country.
Jai Hind..!!

1st Step On The Ladder...!!!

                                     







    This is my first post on this blog. And in this post i am going to tell the overall development of people and different communities of India. I am not going to focus on any specific community or religion but although if someone's feeling are hurted then sorry for that. As still according to me India is a single state not a combination of a states.

                                              Now Let me come to the point, i am Nikhil Kumar and i am basically from Kanpur, Uttar Pradesh. I know after listening to the word "Uttar Pradesh" the whole image of terror, robbery and many more such cases is flashed in front of your eyes. It is usual and normal to think so coz many states have drawbacks with a little glories. I arrived in Jodhpur, Rajasthan in 2009. After arriving it seems to be a silent and a peaceful place. And it is an awesome and also a point of tourist attractions. As i told you earlier every state have many drawbacks with small glories, as my state too have lots of or many drawbacks. When i entered my 11th standard in 2009 and in 1st year 2011, i was asked for my caste in my introduction. Let me tell you i have much upper caste than those who used to ask, but i don't wanna give a smack of my beautiful answer on their faces. I just said i am "Nikhil Kumar" then they said " Kumar k aage..." . Cant understand why they ask suck backward questions with sick mentality . cumom man grow up its 21st Century and you are not living in 18th Century. I know India is growing in its economy and technology. But we cant say India a developed country until unless this mentality of old rituals is changed. By the way if u Google the caste system in America you will get "Null" as a result. But if u search caste system in India you will get 2000 types and they are subdivided into many. Let me quote an example for this, few days ago i went to a book shop the shop was watching a new in T.V that " A boy and a girl were burnt in some state due to inter caste marriage .." and then in  mean while i asked her for some books, he handed over me the books and asked me " Chotu tumhari caste kya hai .." . I was thinking that this guy who was watching the new a while ago and was apposing all these thing is now on the same track.
                                                  Actually in short no one is ready to start. They just want to sit in front of a T.V and say " Yeh to galat hai yaar...". As i earlier said this post is not for a specific caste or religion. Actually i also feel really bad when my own parents talks about this bullshit. Actually i have taken a step to a great change in society and will continue till i can't make a 0.001 % change in 1.252 billion population of India.
Jai Hind ...!!